Showing posts with label The dilemma of what to say to a dying parent. Show all posts
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Sunday, June 7, 2026

What to Say

 

In memory of my mother



What to say,

as she breathes fitfully,

the last minutes of her life.



We struggle

to find the best way of saying

we love you,

be happy to be on your way

to the God of your life-long devotion,

to put love, comfort, encouragement

into our uncertain, dismayed voices;

words worthy of a lifetime

of love and care.


Her breathing weakens;

doubtful that anything

is penetrating the fog of her condition,

we must still try:

words to carry

as she steps off the ledge.